Hi everyone! As a writer, I love to be able to use my imagination and come up with wonderful (I hope!) ideas for stories that are entertaining, no matter what genre I’m writing in. As a reader, I feel the same way—a reflection of the writer side of me. I want to read about characters and situations that are not cardboard “cookie-cutter” stories. I’m sure most readers feel that same way about the books they choose to spend time reading.
Since I’ve delved into trying to learn more about my ancestors (and believe me, I have not spent nearly the time on that I wish I could spend!) I’ve discovered some interesting things about people in my own family line from the past that would make great “fodder” for some very interesting tales.
Ancestry . com has a feature now called “stories”—and the stories are about people they believe are related to you! I haven’t gotten all that far on my family tree, but this story feature of theirs really makes me interested to just drop everything else and work on nothing but learning about my family of the past. These stories are put together in a way that is kind of generic, and tells about things that were of great importance to the people of that time in general.
For instance, one of their stories mentions things like, “Josie Belle Walls—your great grandmother. Your great-grandmother’s right to vote was recognized nationally with the passage of the 19th Amendment in 1920.” It goes on to give a few facts throughout the story about how many women voted, who the candidates were, and has a picture of the census page with my great-grandmother’s information on it, along with her family. Further information calls to our attention that it was indicated on the census page that she could read and write. It even tells what the weather was like at the place where she would have voted that day, Bentley, Oklahoma, in Atoka County! Some pictures are included in this story, but none of her specifically—more general pictures of people of the times, women with suffrage banners, and so on, but the stories have some good information in them that might not be gleaned elsewhere without really digging for it. At the time, there were 12 people listed living in her home—she and her husband and a passel of kids—she was 38. I wonder if she found time to go vote! I do wish there had been pictures of her as a younger woman. I only have one picture of her in her 20’s, and after that, most all the pictures of her were after she was much older. The picture below is the earliest one I have of her, and I think she was in her mid-twenties when this was taken. At that point in time, she had married, had four children, lost her husband and remarried a widower older than she who had several children. They had children together as well, for a total of seventeen kids in a “yours, mine, and ours” situation.

This picture is one of my great grandmother, Josie Bell Walls McLain Martin (also pictured above), with grandkids of her own. She looks absolutely worn out, doesn’t she? I wonder what hopes and dreams she had as a young girl, and I wonder what moments made her heart happy as she grew older. The grandkids from left to right are my mother, El Wanda; the current baby in the family, my mom’s (at the time) youngest sister, Betty; their sister, Opal, who is third in that line of siblings; and Mom’s just-younger sister, Joyce, with whom she was always so very close to. This picture was taken in 1930, so my mom was 8 at that time, Joyce only about 19 months behind her, and Opal around 4-5, with Betty being around 2 or so. My great grandmother Josie was born in 1882 and had her first child (my grandmother) at age 16. In this picture below, she was 48 years old.

My other great-grandmother (both of these were on my mom’s side of the family) was 53 at this same time, 1920, and only had she, her husband, and one daughter (age 19) living at home—a huge difference in family situation and age for two peers. She was born in 1867. I’ve seen one picture of her. (SEE BELOW) Her name was Emily (Emma) Christiana (Ligon) Stallings—all her grandkids called her “Mammy”, and my mom has told me so many stories about her and her life. My mom was the oldest of 11 children, so she spent a lot of time with Mammy, since they lived across the street from one another as my mom was growing up. Much of the information provided in this “story” from Ancestry about both my great-grandmothers here is the same—the talk about voting, the weather, and so on. But the interesting part to me is being able to have all the facts in one place to compare the two of them side by side, since, by that time, they were both living in fairly close proximity, and not much later, both lived in the same small town.

I’ve mentioned before how my Aunt Marilyn did a lot of genealogy research, and something my sister and I still laugh about is my mom’s reaction to learning we were related to Lyndon B. Johnson. She begged my aunt to “Please don’t tell anyone, Marilyn!” (Mom didn’t feel nearly as awful when she found out Benedict Arnold was also a past relative…)
I’m really loving learning about my ancestors because there are so many interesting ‘bits and pieces’ of their lives that I can incorporate into my writing—including a few skeletons in the closet, which I’m so excited about getting to learn more about! Next time I’ll talk about some of the men from our ancestry line –there seems to be a lot more about their escapades than the women, and I can’t wait to read what’s in their “stories” too.
By the way, there is also a feature where relatives, friends, and so on can contribute memories and stories about ancestors as well, and some of those are really fascinating, too. I do remember my great-grandmother Josie that I mentioned above. She passed when I was young, but I have pictures of her and I remember meeting her and being around her. I would love to have known her when she was young.
It’s wonderful to just think about how, in the historical stories we write, we are writing about people just like these women (and men) from our own past bloodlines. Amazing to think about, isn’t it?
Is there someone in your ancestry line that you would like to have met, or like to have been able to spend more time with in your lifetime? Tell us about it! Did any of you know your great-grandparents? I love to hear your stories about the past, and the people who lived it.









SULLIVAN BALLOU







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I learned a new word thanks to a dear friend of mine, Sharon Cunningham. She posted on Facebook about the word, “saeculum”—which was one that I’d never heard of. I didn’t even know there was an actual word for this “event” or “circumstance.”

















I have always loved going to school. Even now, when I walk into WalMart or Target and the school supplies are displayed (in JULY!) I have to stop and look at them. My husband laughs at me, but I just keep on picking up post-it notes and pencils, thinking “I will need these at some point…”


Indian Territory (Oklahoma) was a violent place in the late 1800s. Crime increased dramatically after the Civil War, and because law enforcement in Indian Territory was close to nonexistent (the Indian Nations police force had no jurisdiction over crimes committed in other states), outlaws flocked to the area seeking both criminal opportunity and a safe haven from arrest and prosecution. In other words, outlaws did as they pleased with little chance of retribution unless it was the unofficial kind.
hunt down and arrest wanted criminals and to help bring law and order to the area. Several of these deputy marshals were women.
In 1893, she received a telegram from Marshal Grimes telling her to send a deputy to Oklahoma City to arrest two known “toughs” who were wanted for forgery. No deputies were available, so Ada took matters into her own hands and boarded a train to Oklahoma City. She tracked the fugitives to the Black & Rogers Saloon, then sent in a message that a lady wanted to see them outside. When the men exited the saloon, she attempted to arrest them, without aid of a weapon. The armed men thought it was a joke, and allowed her to handcuff them, but once they realized she was serious, they attempted to resist. Ada told the criminals that she’d deputize every man in the growing crowd to help subdue them if need be. Not long after, 24 year-old Ada escorted the men to the train and transported them back to Norman, where they were convicted. In 1893 alone, Ada made 19 arrests. When she wasn’t working as a Deputy Marshal, she enjoyed painting china.
