As some of you may know, my latest release, ARMED & MARVELOUS, is set in 1955, an era of my birth and growing-up years. It truly was a different time than what we live in today. Families are smaller, more women are working outside the home, and attitudes have changed. In some ways, life has gotten harder since the simpler times of mid-century. In others, it has gotten easier. There are fewer stay-at-home moms and housewives, which inevitably leads to more hectic lives and more ways to simplify them.
My grandmother and mother were both practical housewives. I was, too, until I returned to the workforce for 17 years to pay tuition to our daughters’ private schools. But my stay-at-home housewife years were a happy time for me, and now that I’m retired, I’ve reverted to simplicity whenever I can.
Of course, I’m grateful for the machines that make our lives easier today. Labor-saving washing machines, dryers,
dishwashers, hand vacs, air fryers, Instant Pots…the list goes on and on, and never mind the sanitary wipes, paper towels, spray cleaners, and all those disposables that we use.
But there are some skills that our grandmothers used that should not be discarded. They are still simple, effective, and cost-saving, and I can’t help but think Rexanna, the heroine in ARMED & MARVELOUS, who gave up her wild game hunting career to be a ranch wife, would have used these same skills. Ditto with her beloved grandmother, the heroine of HARRIETT.
I don’t ever remember my grandmother having a messy house. She was a hard worker, devoted to her home and family, and it showed. Like my mother, she grew a large garden and canned the produce. Also like my mother, she kept life on a routine. No surprises on the clock, and in my opinion, families thrive on routine.
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Here are a few tips to keep a clean house:
Housekeep Every Day
Make the beds, put things away where they belong, wash those straggly dishes you don’t put in the dishwasher throughout the day. A tidy house and clean kitchen is a huge mood-lifter. Something else – we have a Golden Retriever, and we vacuum floors and steps every single day. If we didn’t keep up on it, we’d be drowning in dog hair–and that’s just gross.
Make a Laundry Day
I have always done this. Monday is my day to do laundry, and my hamper is empty when I’m done. Very gratifying. I also use a clothesline – can’t beat that fresh air smell – and it saves electricity, too. Plus, if you can’t get to the dryer’s laundry to fold right away, you avoid a wrinkly heap letting the laundry hang. The ironing can wait for another day.
Vinegar is your friend.
Environmentally friendly, economical, and non-toxic. Make your own cleaning solution–just mix equal parts of vinegar and water and put in a spray bottle. I also use a mix of Pine-Sol and water (about 1/4 cup for a 32 oz spray bottle of multi-purpose cleaner like Lysol or Simple Green). Cheap, cheap.
Wash Dishes While you Cook–and Afterward, too!
My husband does this. He always has a sink of soapy water to wash the cutting boards, knives, bowls, and skillets we use as we cook. Since I’m a little fussy about what I put in my dishwasher, it’s so nice not having a mountain of dishes to wash after dinner. This way, clean-up is minimal.
The sun is your friend, too.
See above. Use the sun to dry linens, dish towels, comforters, etc. One recommendation – spray the bulky items with a vinegar and water solution to freshen and sanitize, then hang on the line for several hours. Sun kills bacteria. I remember hanging diapers on the line hundreds, maybe thousands of times, over the course of four babies. Disposable diapers were just coming onto the scene with our fourth daughter, but I stuck to the cloth diapers and saved a ton of money. Even better, they were always visibly whiter and sanitized afterward.
Don’t get overwhelmed! Make a schedule.
You’ll only have to think of that one task on one day. Remember those embroidered dish towels with chores for every day of the week? There’s wisdom in those towels. Hold yourself accountable! Here’s an example. Adjust as needed.
Monday – Laundry, change bedding
Tuesday – Clean bathrooms. Wash mirrors/handprints, doggie slobber, etc. off door glass. Newspapers work great and leave the glass sparkling. No newspapers anymore? Flour sack towels work great. No lint and easy to wash.
Wednesday – Mop/Vacuum floors
Thursday – Dust furniture/blinds. Use a micro-fiber cloth. They’re amazing for collecting the dust.
Friday – Wipe down kitchen appliances.
Weekends – Meal planning, grocery-shopping, lawn work
Have Children?
Give them their own chores. Fifteen minutes a day to help mom out will teach them to be responsible adults/employees later. Trust me on this. I’ve seen it with my own children and grandchildren. And like I said, a routine is comforting. Same time for meals, wake-up and bedtimes. It works!
Take time to Relax and Have Fun!
A clean house leads to a happier family. Evenings are for relaxing. Make a date night happen or movie night with the kids. Just be sure to pick up the popcorn bowls later! There are few things worse than waking up to a messy kitchen or TV room!
Note: There are lots of housekeeping sites online, but one of my favorites is the Flylady method. http://www.flylady.net.
Another is http://www.retrohousewifegoesgreen.com
Do you have a favorite cleaning tip from your grandmother or mother?
Do you have a favorite housekeeping hack to share?
What is your favorite housekeeping chore?