The Cattleman’s Sweetheart by Sherry Shindelar–and a giveaway

Mary Ann (Molly) Dyer met Charles Goodnight in 1864 at Fort Belknap, Texas. The Civil War, in its last year, had taken a toll on the Texas frontier. Charles, a former scout and ex-Texas Ranger, was part of the Frontier Regiment, a Texas militia assigned to protecting the frontier from Indian attacks. On his way to becoming one of the founders of the Texas cattle drives, Charles kept a herd of cattle on the side within riding distance of the fort.

The petite school teacher caught the eye of the rough and tumble soldier/scout/cattleman.

Molly wasn’t born to the hard life of the frontier. However, in 1854, a pledge her father made to Sam Houston led to her leaving the tranquil, civilized life of a prominent lawyer’s daughter in Tennessee and immigrating to Texas with her family. Settlers were just beginning to trickle into the lands surrounding Fort Belknap in the mid 1850’s, and Comanche raids were a constant threat.

Molly’s parents died a few years later, and she was left to support her three youngest brothers. She could have packed up and headed home to Tennessee. Instead, she stuck to the frontier and became a school teacher. As the Civil War ripped the nation apart, the Texas frontier rolled back a hundred miles in some places due to Indian raids. Fort Belknap hovered at the edge of what remained.

Molly was a smart, gutsy woman with a heart for others. Her strength and courage were as enduring as the prairie sun. Charles was a fighter, and a natural born frontiersman, who didn’t know the word “quit.” The spark of attraction between them that sprang to life in 1864 flourished into an acquaintance and courtship that endured Charles’s months or even year-long cattle drives as he mapped out the Goodnight-Loving Trail and started making a name for himself and worked to build an empire.

By 1868 and 1869, Molly was teaching in Weatherford, Texas, the supply hub for Charles’s cattle drives. She’d had enough of the extended courtship. This was the man she wanted to spend her life with, and he needed to make a decision. Eventually, she told him he needed to propose or be done courting. He married the love of his life in July 1870.

The refined school teacher traveled west with the rancher to the rough country near Pueblo, Colorado. They settled down on Charles’s ranch, but eventually, they found their true home in the Palo Duro Canyon, a 800 foot deep, ten to twenty mile wide canyon that stretched for one hundred and twenty miles. Together, they eventually managed over a million acres and more than a 100,000 cattle.

Molly and Charles’s love endured long stretches of time apart, with cattle drives keeping him away for several seasons at a time. With only one female neighbor in the vast area of the canyon, Molly befriended the cowboys at the ranch and the occasional Indian that traveled through.

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She would often go six months or a year without seeing anyone while the men were away on cattle drives. The beautiful walls of Palo Duro, colored like red Spanish skirts, must have felt like the end of the earth at times. But Molly thrived. She ran the ranch in her husband’s absence and was a friend to all in need, including the buffalo.

 

 

 

 

 

Her heart ached for the baby bison orphaned by the wholesale slaughter of the herds from the late 1860’s through the 1880’s. She rescued and cared for the calves, bottle-feeding them when needed. Her efforts helped save the southern buffalo from extinction.

 

Throughout the Goodnight’s fifty-six year marriage, Charles was a man who enjoyed the thrill of adventure and the unknown, willing to take great risks, gaining and losing land and wealth in the process. Molly was his foundation, the North Star of his compass.1 For his sake, she endured the loneliness of an entire canyon, but instead of being defeated, she thrived in his world and made a name for herself alongside his. She was described as a bubbly person, full of energy and heart. The spark of attraction ignited in 1864 between the school teacher and the cattleman blazed into an enduring flame that neither distance, time, hardship, or differences could snuff out. After her death, Charles “lost himself,” because he’d lost the keeper of his heart.

The epitaph inscribed on Molly’s gravestone reads, “One who spent her life in the service of others.”

Charles Goodnight makes a cameo appearance in the third book of my Lone Star Redemption series, Texas Reclaimed. Goodnight’s wild bronc ride in the story is a real event, but the real love in my story sparks between Ben McKenzie and Cora Scott.

To win a copy of Texas Reclaimed, leave an answer to this question in the comments below: If you were Molly Goodnight, would you have stayed behind on the ranch all of those months alone, or you would you have insisted on going with your husband on the cattle drives? Why?

 

  1. Botkin, Jane Little. “I Accepted a Challenge: Researching and Writing Mary Ann Goodnight’s Story.” com/2024/03/i-accepted-a-challenge-researching-and-writing-mary-ann-goodnights-story/. 11 March 202

 Originally from Tennessee, Sherry loves to take her readers into the past. A romantic at heart, she is an avid student of the Civil War and the Old West. When she isn’t busy writing, she is an English professor, working to pass on her love of writing to her students. Sherry is a multi-award-winning writer. She currently resides in Minnesota with her husband of forty-one years. She has three grown children and three grandchildren. Sherry is currently writing the fourth book in her Lone Star Redemption series. The series is set on the Texas frontier in the 1860’s and features some of her favorite tropes: enemies to lovers, captive narrative, Native Americans, scarred heroes, and feisty heroines.

Texas Reclaimed

Can love blossom between a woman haunted by her family’s past and a man with a war-scarred heart?

Cora Scott is determined to hold onto her family’s Texas ranch and provide a stable home for her young half brother, Charlie, despite the mounting challenges of post-Civil War frontier life. But when a scheming creditor threatens to seize their land, she must accept help from Ben McKenzie, a former Yankee soldier sent by her late brother. Though Ben’s generosity and strength draw her, the man’s private struggle she stumbles upon—too reminiscent of her father’s alcoholism—makes her question whether she can trust her heart to him.

Ben McKenzie arrives in Texas intent on fulfilling his promise to his dying friend to protect Cora and Charlie. While using his inheritance to save their ranch, he battles not only the loss of their cattle but also his dependency on laudanum—a medicine that turned into a curse after his imprisonment at Andersonville. As his feelings for Cora deepen, he must choose between his promise to his father to take over their Philadelphia newspaper and his growing dream of a life with Cora in Texas.

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72 thoughts on “The Cattleman’s Sweetheart by Sherry Shindelar–and a giveaway”

    • I love to travel, but I think if I was Molly, I’d alternate: go on a cattle drive now and then, but then someone has to manage the thousand of acres while Charles is away:)

  1. I would’ve done my best to emulate Molly, staying on the ranch. Whether I’d have been as successful at it as she was is anybody’s guess. In this life horseback riding isn’t one of my skills and I doubt I’d be that different in another era.

    • I think Molly was quite a remarkable woman. She became like a “mother” to the cowhands, taking of them when they were sick, writing letters for them, etc. And it’s amazing that she could manage the ranch on her own for months at a time.

  2. If i had children I would want to stay home but if I didn’t I want to be with my husband.

  3. While I would have loved to go on the cattle drive, I would have stayed home to care for and protect all we had worked to achieve.

    • That’s a good point. In one way, I would have hated to have been on my own, and I would have missed my husband terribly, but the best choice would have been to stay and protect and the home and life they were building.

  4. that really is a tough choice. if I really loved him I would do what was necessary. if staying on the ranch and running so we all had a wonderful life. that is what I would do. if we had children that would have helped. silence sometimes can be a blessing, sometimes it needs some help.

    • That’s an excellent answer. And that looks like exactly what Molly did. I believe she and Charles loved each other very much, and I believe they agreed that her staying and managing the ranch was best. That was an amazing amount of responsiblity he gave her. He could have hired an overseer, but he trusted her to do it well.

  5. I’m not sure, but I think I would have stayed on the ranch. The book Texas Reclaimed sounds interesting.

    • It would have been a hard decision. If I was Molly, I think I would have gone one a couple of cattle drives, but I think for the most part I would have stayed at home and managed the ranch, especially if I loved the home my husband and I were building together.

  6. I probably would have stayed home. What a wonderful blog Sherry. Love all the history. I can’t imagine the life back then. And they lived long lives together! Thank you for coming to P&P’s today.

    • I think I would have tried out a cattle drive or two (but that would have been hard, dirty work). In the long run, I think I would have stayed home and protected the ranch.

  7. I could not have stayed behind like that. I need people. I’m not sure I could have done those hard cattle drives either. I’m not sure what I would have done. Live a lonely life or a life with a broken heart……

    • You’re, Carrie. It would have been a hard choice. Live on the ranch would have been very lonely, but going on a cattle drive would have been hard, dirty, dangerous work. But by staying on the ranch, she’d know she was protecting their home. I think if I was them, I would have adopted a child. (They weren’t able to have their own.)

  8. Living in Amarillo, Texas and visiting Palo Duro Canyon regularly and knowing how crazy the Panhandle weather is, I don’t think I could have stayed alone so long. The isolation along with the winds and intense storms that can seem to come from nowhere would have driven me insane. Molly was an amazing woman!

    • I love Palo Duro Canyon! I travelled to West Texas a couple years ago on spring break. My husband and I spent three days in Palo Duro, stayig in the CCC cabins at the bottom of the canyon. The canyon is beautiful, but like you said, I’ve heard the weather can be very unpredictable and come up all of a sudden. I would have been lonely if I was her, but she’s a remarkable woman!

  9. Yes, I would have stayed on the remote ranch. I have 2 distinct personalities. One is outgoing and social, but the other enjoys solitude and is rather reclusive. Besides, give me a good book, and I can be happy almost anywhere.

    • Great idea:) Books would defintiely help! I like quiet and solitude, especially for writing, but months alone, would have definitely been too much. Maybe that’s why she started helping the baby buffalo.

  10. I would stay on the ranch. I love being by myself. I grew up on a small farm and I loved it.

    • I think I would have tried going on a couple of cattle drives, but I think in the long run, I would have wanted to protect and continue to build the ranch up for Charles. But it would have been lonely:(

    • I think I would have gone along for a cattle drive now and then for the adventure and to be with my husband:) However, I would have been concerned about my home and probably ended up stayng to protect the ranch most of the time.

  11. I think I would have stayed. I believe she would have gone if he wanted her to, but someone had to stay and take care of the ranch.

  12. I believe I would have stayed on the ranch because a cattle drive would have been really rough and I think worse then living in the ranch alone.

    • Good idea! That way she could provide a good home for her and Charles, and that was an enormous responsibility. I was an honor that he trusted her to manage thousands of acres and all that they owned.

    • I would have missed my husband, and I probably would have tried a cattle drive or two, but for the most part, I think I would have stayed home and managed the ranch for my husband.

    • I would have missed my husband, and I probably would have tried a cattle drive or two, but for the most part, I think I would have stayed home and managed the ranch for my husband.

  13. I probably would have stayed at the ranch. I don’t think I could have handled being on the long cattle drives with all the dust, sleeping on the ground, and long days riding on a horse.

    • You’re right. Cattle drives can be pretty rough. In my book, Texas Reclaimed, the hero who is a newspaper editor from Philadelphia, tries his hand at a cattle drive. It was quite an experience!

  14. Thank you for this history lesson. It sounds like they had a good partnership and she would have been in charge of the men and cattle still on the ranch. I would have stayed, too.

  15. It’s a hard choice, but I think I’d have liked to have gone on at least one cattle drive with him!

  16. I would have stayed and took care of the ranch. Cattle drives were very long and sometimes dangerous.

  17. Hi, I would have stayed behind because somebody that really cares for their land needs be there the whole time so that things will run smoothly and so that things will get done the right way. Thank you so much, I have enjoyed reading your post. Have a Great weekend.

    • I would have really missed my husband, but I agree that staying home and protecting the ranch would have been the best option. In my book, Texas Reclaimed, Cora Scott is faced with the struggle to save her ranch.

  18. I probably would’ve wanted to go with my husband. I’m not sure I could take that long of a time all alone.

  19. Cattle drives could be extremely rough, in addition to being dirty and dangerous, so I completely understand. Plus, it was an honor that he trusted her to manage the massive ranch while he was away.

  20. I think I might have gone on the trail drive with my husband on the first drive or so after we were married. That would likely have been enough for my sense of adventure. After that drive, I likely would have stayed home to work on setting up our home and making sure what of the herd was left there as well as the other animals were taken care of. My staying home would also serve to maintain the claim on the land and protect what we had. I would certainly try to make sure I had books shipped in before he left, so I could take advantage of the time alone to read.
    I knew their ranch was in Texas, but didn’t realize they had also tried their hand at ranching in n Colorado. Depending where you are in both states, it can be a rough go for making a success of it.

    • I like you plan:) I think I would have done the same: go on one or two drives in the early years, and then stayed home to make the ranch the best that it could be. I love the idea about having the books shipped in:)

      Molly didn’t like Colorado. In some ways, she felt that it was rougher than Texas, especially after two men were hung from a telegraph pole. But it was drought and financial difficulties that drove them to Texas after few years. Goodnight partnered John Adair, a wealthy Irishman, to start a ranch in Palo Duro. Adair had the money and Goodnight had the expertise, determination, and strength to see it through.

  21. Sherry, I was just at Palo Duro Canyon. I loved learning more about MRS Goodnight. And I just read a diary by John Adair’s wife Cordelia…before John bought the JA Ranch. She and John and others went on a buffalo hunt about 1874-ish. He started the ranch soon after. Fascinating. They were really wealthy and it’s interesting to see how much their money could smooth the way…and how much it couldn’t.
    I bought your book. I’m looking forward to reading it.

    • Mary,
      I visited Palo Duro two years ago on a research trip and loved it! We stayed in the CCC cabins at the bottom of the canyon for a few nights. (Very cool!) However, I totally missed out on going to the Goodnight house. (I didn’t realize I’d be including Charles Goodnight as a minor character in one of my books in the near future.) I did go to the Plains Panhandle Historic Museum, which had a number of artifacts from him. I’d enjoy reading a diary from John Adair’s wife. I’ll have to look into that. (There’s a research book coming out about Molly Goodnight in the next year.) I’m excited that you bought my book:) I’ve seen a lot of publicity about yours since it came out the same week as mine. I love your cover and the title! That alone grabbed my attention and drew me in. I plan to buy it:) (My first book Texas Forsaken is more directly connected to Palo Duro. It’s loosely inspired by the life of Cynthia Ann Parker.)

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